10 signs she doesn’t like you – She likes you, just not like this

She’s Just Not That Into You

You’ve been on a few dates and things are going well. But you can’t shake the feeling that she doesn’t like you that much. Or things were going well and now they’re not.

The easiest solution is to just ask, but these conversations aren’t always easy. Let’s look at ten signs that she’s not interested in you and how you can deal with each one.

1. She doesn’t want to be with you

When you have plans, she is very busy and often has to leave immediately, even if she can meet you.

She cancels plans and doesn’t try to change them. If she’s really interested, she’ll do it. If she hasn’t moved heaven and earth to spend time with you, she’s probably not interested in you.

How you should proceed: Put the ball in her hands and agree on a date and time for your next date. If she wants to be with you, she will.

2. Avoid touching you

People often use touch to show their interest, either by “innocently” stroking your hand as you walk by or by placing their hand on your arm during a conversation.

They will also try to get close enough for you to reciprocate the touch. If this is not the case, or if they have touched you before and are not touching you now, this is a sign that they are not interested.

How to deal: Let her determine the level of intimacy herself and stop touching like you did before.

3. She’s not interested in what you have to say

How can you tell when a woman isn’t interested in you? She thinks you are not worth listening to.

People often feel closer to those with whom they have something in common, and sometimes that commonality can be the basis for a deeper relationship.

However, if her vision is clouded or she is not actively listening to you, but only engaging in your conversation in an appropriate way, she may not be interested in you.

Contradictions: Perhaps there is a problem with the topic or you are unintentionally taking over the conversation. Be quiet and let them talk instead.

4. Your body language says a lot

Even if she speaks loudly and diplomatically, you can tell by the way she moves around you that she’s not interested.

Does she often avoid eye contact? Does she turn away from you rather than towards you? Is her posture closed off rather than open and relaxed?

Maybe she’s just having a bad day, but this could be a sign that she doesn’t want a relationship with you.

Coping strategies Keep your body language open and relaxed.

5. She’s not excited about texting

How can I tell if she’s losing interest? Are you always the first to text her?

Does it take longer for her to reply now than it used to when you could always reply straight away? Or does she keep her emails short and sweet, whereas you used to be able to talk for hours?

This is a sign that she doesn’t like you.

Coping strategies Resist the urge to blow up her cell phone. Instead, ask her if there are other ways to communicate with you or if there is a time that suits her.

6. She only contacts you when she has something to do

The phone only rings when she needs a favor or is bored. At other times, she’s too busy to play or answer your messages.

Everyone has a busy schedule, but if she only goes out when it suits her and not when you want her to, she’s not as in love with you as you think.

What to do: She may actually be too busy. Before you contact her, think about what your boundaries are and how long you’re willing to let things slide.

7. She doesn’t introduce you to her friends and family

For many women, especially in the early stages of a relationship, friends and family often take precedence over men.

So if you’re looking for signs that she doesn’t like you, see if you’ve met her family and friends. If she immediately says no, it could be a sign that she doesn’t like you.

What to do: Not everyone is lucky enough to have a family, so don’t panic. Don’t be pushy and show that you want to date someone you like.

8. Sex is everything

If she likes to meet you for sex or dirty text conversations but avoids traditional dating, she might be interested in your body.

What to do: Be open and honest with her so she knows what kind of relationship you’re in.

9. You do something for her and get the wrong reaction

Let’s be clear: Doing nice things doesn’t guarantee her affection, and it shouldn’t be your goal.

It’s called self-esteem, but watch her reaction when you compliment her, buy her something, or do something for her.

If her reaction is awkward gratitude and a forced smile, it could be that she’s not interested in you, not hidden nervousness.

Coping strategy: Don’t pay attention to her until you’re sure how she feels about you.

10. Lots of hints

Does she talk about other guys she knows? Does she talk about how busy she is or wonder if you have time for a relationship? These are subtle hints that she’s not interested in you.

What to do: Take the hints, but don’t try to force the issue because she’s actually trying to avoid the embarrassment of rejection.

Take it like a man

Every man on this planet is faced with rejection. It’s never pleasant, but it’s a fact of life for all of us.

It doesn’t always feel that way, but I’m here to tell you that it’s nothing personal. Attraction is complicated.

Being a manly man means being respectful (to her and to yourself) and accepting it with dignity.

Don’t be angry; don’t be rude or unkind to her. Keep your head held high.

Align yourself with her energy level

This is important. If you are chasing her and getting nowhere, it is time to stop.

Try to make the same effort as her – only text her when she texts you. Don’t put too much energy into it if she doesn’t respond to you.

I mentioned Ludo’s masterclass above, but this is the last topic we’ll cover in this lesson.

Because a one-sided relationship does not create a good relationship.

Luda encourages you to think about whether you are sacrificing too much (or too little) in your current endeavor.

So if you haven’t yet taken the Love and Intimacy Masterclass, now is the time to do so. 

If she likes you, she’ll start putting in more effort; if she doesn’t, you don’t need to waste any more time.

Learn your lesson

In most cases, you could have done absolutely nothing differently – the result would have been the same, and that’s just how the cookie crumbles.

Sometimes, however, lessons can be learned for the future. It’s a good idea to learn how to play the dating game so you get better results next time.

Keep dating

It doesn’t sound like the most romantic thing, but dating is a numbers game.

Not everyone is going to be the right partner for you.

Anyone can be rejected and the only way to succeed in dating is to go back.

Dating is no different from any other area of life and the more you practice it, the easier it gets.

It all starts at the end

It’s never easy when the other person doesn’t feel the same way, but remember that there are over 7 billion people in the world and not all of them are compatible with each other.

You shouldn’t give up at the first sign of trouble, but if you realize that she’s not interested in you, accept it and move on.

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